After the breakup, your instincts might tell you that the way to get your ex back is to go running after him. These same instincts will tell you that you should vow your undying love for him. These tactics will only make him pull away from you. If you want your ex boyfriend to come running back, you have to show him how much he needs you.
It is only natural to think that if you stay close to him, he will not find someone else. The opposite is true. By pushing him too hard, you will push him straight into another woman's arms. The best tactic you can use is the no contact rule. Ignore your ex completely and have no contact with him in any way. Forget his phone number and email address.
When he says he needs space, you should give him the space he needs and show him you can accept his wishes and make a life without him. This can turn things around in a hurry. When he said he needed space, your ex might not have meant to breakup with you. He could have just needed time to work some things out.
Men need a certain amount of excitement in their life. If your relationship had been moving to smooth, he might have become bored. He still loves you, but he is taking you for granted. Your ex feels he can take time off from your relationship and you will wait for him to come back. All you have to do is show him how much he needs you and he will come running back.
Anytime you take something away from a man, he will fight to get it back. So take yourself away from him. Take a mini vacation or just drop off his radar and stay out of his sight. If he tries to call you, let him leave a message. A few weeks of this and he will no longer take you for granted. Your ex will be crazy to find out where you are and what you are doing.
When he needs space, show your ex boyfriend how much he needs you. The best way to do that is give him the space he needs. Having the time to experience his life without you will make him feel the void that being without you has created. He will realize that his life cannot be complete until he has you back in his arms. Now all you have to do is watch your ex boyfriend come running back.
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